If you are consistently perceived as attractive, you will consistently be perceived as less intelligent. People need to convince themselves that you are not the full package to feel worthy of being in your presence without feeling too small. When you exhibit depth, while being intelligent, many will be turned off by you because they realize they cannot measure up to you on any front. People are uncomfortable with acknowledging the personhood of attractive people instead they want to POLICE the e

what does femininity mean to you? ✨ Growing up, I feel like the media conditioned my brain that small and dainty = feminine. Which is the complete opposite to me. So subconsciously I took that to mean that being 5’10 I wasn’t really feminine and I never would be. And that was just the way it was. When I was overweight I felt this even more strongly. I didn’t feel feminine. I felt big. I felt out of place. It made me dislike my height. And because of that I never felt like I could wear things lik

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